X- You don’t understand! U r suffering!!u need help!
Y- what do u mean! I don’t need any help!! I m fine..
X- no! U r not! U need to talk..
Y(snorts)– it’s fine! I can handle!! I m a strong person..
I laughed under my breath!
I was watching this exchange,and the last statement stung me bitterly..!
Why the hell do u think you are strong!
Just because u keep hiding your problems!
Just because you feel shame in sharing!
Or just because you r too proud to let others in…..
I object….! My Lords and ladies…
When these so called strong people try to sell me this..! I don’t buy it for a penny..
Wearing a facade of strength does not make u eligible to claim the title!!
It just fucks your mind..
There are three types of people, out there in the world…!
First one….Real pussies!
They cry over their problems,publicize it, and ask for sympathies…they need everything served on a silver platter! The level mentioned here…is of no level at all!!
The second ones… are a level ahead..!
These are the ones with strong demeanor! Tough macho acts ! hollow insides!! Just like a giant forest tree … invaded by termites..! . Proud and confused, they remain stuck in the swamp of their delusionary strength…
Yeah…they r messed up…..badly!
But the third ones…
The third ones are the real strengtholders..
They are the ones who actually possess strength! these people are the real alphas! They don’t have a skyrocketing ego…! They are sure and focused!! They don’t feel shame in sharing their problems because they are fine with the help given
These people do not say -” I can do that on my own!i m strong!
Instead… they say..” yeah! i can do that on my own! but it would be hell lot of fun when someone else helps me in doing it..!
That’s the most remarkable thing about strong people.
They not only posses strength.. but radiate that too!
They let others help them, because they are well aware of the core phenomenon that generates strength…
They know the power of this simple act. By asking for help, they not only save their time and energy but also open the doors for others to come closer..for walls to break .. and for bonds to strengthen…!! They fight the fascinating illusions of strength and feel honored by the blisters of failures!!
They don’t require validations….they are their own masters!
The second ones i mentioned…. are the ones who immitate strength.
How to recognize them…??
They are unquestionably rude!
Their confidence leans like the tower of Pisa..yet their egos stand tall like the great wall of china..
They cleverly disguise their fears and insecurities behind the mask of stiffness. These people reflect negetivity… though they don’t tend to!!
That’s the difference between strong and weak people..
Strong people find positive vibes to resonate with their emotions. Their thoughts are not vague and unformulated, there is an organization,even in a very simple act.. On the other side…weak folks are so stagnant.. that they unintentionally link themselves to negetive vibrations ….they have a fading aura…just like that of a dusky sun….blending in the dark horizon..!!
Well…i m not a shrink…so i can’t possibly conclude this thing!
I am extending this question to u…my reader
As a gift from me….the seeder
The question that stood for the umpteenth time..!
Is your strength real..? or is it just a mime..!!☺