Loneliness and Solitude!

Loneliness and Solitude!

Do u think loneliness and solitude are same??

I think they are not!!

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Loneliness is a wound , Solitude is healing!

Loneliness is needy, Solitude is bestowing!

Loneliness is diluting, Solitude is enhancing!

Loneliness is constructing, Solitude is destroying!

Loneliness is the pain, Solitude is the healing…

Loneliness is disreputable…

Solitude is WORTHY !!


  Agree?…:):)

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Her pneumatic heart…

Her pneumatic heart…

 Her heart seems hollow, to the heirs of  hypocrisy..

 They don’t know , her heart is an ardor of  intimacy.

 She has the power to  keep  and the courage to  let go…

 She is the SPACE, in which, the life can  grow.

 The empty spaces in her heart , don’t mean she’s wrong,,

 They are an omen, that she indeed , is very  strong !!

 For , she can create spaces to  grow

To  live ,  adapt  and love to  flow!!

 Don’t ever perceive her to not to be  strong!!!

 Because, maybe…her heart is just empty ,,

Until…..the right person comes along !

Apathy…

        The scythe of death,

               carved his corpse…

              To crown for Battle,

             he never fought .

           The world was why…??

          so insane!!!!

         He fought for  LIFE,

        but wreathen for  DEATH

I m NOT nice!

                   picture by me…

Trust me, i mean it!

But that doesn’t mean that i am selfish , arrogant or bitchy!!

I m still a good person , not nice  though!

I am definitely kind, just not NICE !

I came across many nice people,  or as they were claimed to be, but not one….not one struck my cord!!!

Why??

Because, they were too flexible to do that!!

 “NICENESS”  is a typically misunderstood concept.

Instead of being apprehensive ,, “nice people” are actually the folks with an OCD of pleasing everybody in the room!    They do not  offend others by bringing their opinions to the table.Demureness  is their valuable possession ..!

 The term nice  is  cleverly used as an euphemism for being spineless and never rowing the boat.

Things are always even with nice people! no crests, no troughs…just plane and simple trail! easy huh! not so much…

Easy paths, often mislead…

  The validation u get from them is often false, and the basic problem is…u get blindfolded because it has already been sugercoated ..

And who says suger is good? medicines are bitter… still, they save lives!!

  That’s the difference between NICENESS and KINDNESS…

Niceness can be a charade, kindness is true..

Niceness comforts ur ego, kindness comforts ur soul..

Nice things wither, kindness lasts forever!!

So, why do u think the “Nobel prize” is not given in the catagory of ” NICENESS”  huh??

 Nice people don’t stay nice forever..

 with time , they collect tons of shit in their heads. The frustration of letting people walk all over them , chokes their emotional centres!! Their thoughts get poisoned and they become bitter!!

On the other side,, kind  people don’t run for validations of others.Instead, they just do what needs to be done! They deserve every ounce of respect, because they work to make the world a better place, instead of bullshitting it with NICENESS.

I bet, nothing’s more attractive then a simple act of kindness!!

I completely agree on the goodness of NICENESS though, but u don’t need to be an epitome of it!! Do not let it crush your self respect and pride!

 its just not natural!

You need to know, that…

 its Oky to be bold.

Its Oky to be edgy.

Its Oky to be uncompromising.

Its Oky to not to please.

 You just need to be HONEST, to be KIND  and completely FAIR!!

 SO,here’s the thing……

Being polite and flashing colgate ( or whatever toothpaste crap ) smile is not the same as being legitimately, honestly and heartwarmingly kind!!

You need to stick to the character of your convictions in order to be respected and loved!!

Its Oky to  fake it till u make it ,,but …..you can’t always fake the funk….remember that!!!

;););)


Who is she…??

She is a Myth…

She is a Mystery!

She fights her daemons…

 She Owns her scars..!

She delves into chaos…

And walks on the sword.

Fallen from the Himmel…

And Rose from the Hell..

She is ordinary…

She is a Legend !!!

She is fierce…

She is wild ,,

Just like  A  PHOENIX …

Burnt in the pyre…

Born from the Ashes…

                   – Apoorva Chouhan..

Himmel is a German word for heaven!

The SinglehoodΒ 

The SinglehoodΒ 

If you are single and bewailing,

feel resented and complaining…

You are not worthy

You are not worthy..

 Rejecting urself and the surrounding,

and if you are thinking of rebounding..

You are not worthy

You are not worthy..

You are not single,to sit alone and sulk,

and if you are carrying this,as a bulk…

You are not worthy 

You are not worthy..

Sitting at the window,to see world growing ,

refusing the privileges without even knowing…

You are not worthy 

You are not worthy..

If you’re stealing present,for past to brood!

You’re not worthy of this luxury called ..

             ” The SINGLEHOOD “

                        –  Apoorva Chouhan 

This is a toast to all single people…

Singlehood is an incredible period..

Live , learn and create…

Enjoy this incredible phase..it’s not gonna come back..

The thought!!

Some powers are not to be lent…

Words and Validations are two of them.

 Words are powerful! Do not let others influence them.

Your dreams are worthy! Do not let others validate them…..

                            – Apoorva Chouhan